I'm a kinky-minded, pansexual, polyamorous guy married to a woman who isn't into any of that. I have suppressed my sexual identity for years and all it has done is wipe out all of my amorous feelings including for my wife. I am not willing to be that way any more, so I am looking for people of all gender in any number to create new loving sexual relationships with. NSA is important, but not for the reasons generally given. I believe all sexual experiences are intensely spiritual, and a giving, loving spirit is what makes them great. Non-attachment is an important test of spiritual maturity, and polyamory and NSA sexuality are excellent means to developing this spiritual skill.