I'm a nerdy guy fast approaching middle age. I find myself dating after 20 years, and things have changed a bit. I've seen from the outside. As a technophile and avid internet surfer, I know about this stuff. This is just the first time I've had to use it. I'm a kind, intelligent, and experienced guy looking for a woman who is kind and smart. I tend to be quiet and reserved upon first meeting, but if you can stick with me for a minute, I love to talk about many things. I'm not looking for a romance or long term situation. rather, I'm hoping to date and make friends. Preferably in that order, but I'm always happy to have a new friend.