My guess you may be looking for a younger man. If that doesn't happen, and you're open minded about a person's age, would you consider a mature and in-shape man? I'm 57, white, clean, smooth, non-smoker, DDF, 5'10", 170 lbs., and 7" cut cock. Average looking guy who exercises regularly, can keep up, and acts like a gentleman. Not pushy, respectful of boundaries, and discreet. I'm experienced and will play at your comfort level. Interested in helping to enhance your pleasure. Don't judge this book by the age of its cover.