Our lives are full of personal choices. We choose who we are, who we become, who we love, whom we hate. We decide our days, our nights, our friends, our companions. We are in control of our lives.
But sometimes, just sometimes, its good not to be in control.....
I identify with being different, being kinky if you like. Kinky is not a dirty word, its not sexual, its a lifestyle choice. A choice that is different then the hundreds of other around me. I am different, I am a standout, I.... am ME.
I have been wondering about kink, been experimenting with it and slowly evolving to having a kinkier side to me. My kinky side is not into overt sexuality, but rather revelling in the lifestyle itself.
I enjoy the occassional crossdressing, exhibitionism and nudity. Its a liberating feeling, one that give a new dimension to my regular, humdrum life.
I dream about light punishment, female domination and same sex relationships.
I am not a full timer or a LTR seeker, nor am a wham-bam-thank-you-mam/sir guy . Relationships are not focussed for me, but have a wider meaning.
In real life, I love conversations (and the occassional debate). I am knowledgeable (hey, if you got it, flaunt it), a linguist, a photographer, an artist, a writer, a poet and experimental cook.
I have a 'nilla life, which is important for me and hence, am not a prolific poster or always on facebook (love the ad!!) guy. However, I have an open ear all the time for some good conversation and a cup of steaming mocha.