Hey, how r u. It's complicated because I have a girl but we are on the way to a break up. After 16 years we've been together since I was 12 and she was 10. I think we got together too early never really had a chance to explore. Yeah I love her but I don't want to be with her. Nothing ever good enough for her, and I'm always wrong. But hey oh well it is what it is. I can't let my kids she us act like this. So that's why I'm looking for a change . Love? Hell I don't know . But my type of change is just up and leaving everything behing and rocking with it. So I already talked to my employer for a transfer to where . I don't know where yet but wherever it is I'm there . Just me and my TWO KIDS. 4 and 5 years of age . Oh yeah I have 2 and only 2 kids. I figured you heard it all , I'm a lil different. I'm and wanted to let you know exactly where I'm at and what in doing before you waist ur time. Naw mean . lol. My name is Joe'L I'm black and Samoan .